You can lead a horse to water but, it is up to him is he decides to take a drink.
You can give all of the needed information or tips but, it is up to the individual if he uses it or not, atleast you made the chain begin to clink.
You can put everything out there on the table but, you can’t do anything about their choice or what they choose to think.
You can only offer the helping hand, it is up to them is they accepts it or, if they decide to swim, float or sink.
It is still better to offer that helping hand, atleast you have given the necessary link.
Don’t just stand there and be critical with nothing to offer, that only makes you stink.
If they decide to accept your helping hand, it will truly touch your heart when you see them smile and their eyes begin to blink.